You can be here for two main reasons. Either you already know what “ABDL” means, or you do not. If the latter, keep yourself comfortable: do you think you have already seen everything on Earth? Now, there’s a hidden corner to unveil, which will definitely show you all the might of online communities and dating websites.
ABDL stands for “adult baby diaper lover.” Boom.
As you may be aware, some people suffer from urinary incontinence. But it’s not a nurse-rental website we are talking about. There actually are some people who sexualize diapers —not just diapers, but all childish attitudes and behaviors related to babies. So, diapers are just helpful for the acronym, but you will find plenty of scenarios on the ABDL Match website. Follow us through this review if you are willing to know who’s our big boy. And how the site works, of course.
The first reaction someone has while looking at the ABDL world is, “no, this can’t be true”—either because they are reading your mind, or because you just can’t believe someone likes adult diapers.
Well, there is! This is an amazingly big world of individuals who just wish sex talk could be a little more comprehensive of the sweetness inside all of us.
So, let’s focus on how the website works.
Basically, you sign-up for free, and you are inside the community. You can choose whether to be an AB/DL male or AB/DL female, or a mommy, a daddy, or finally a transsexual.
You just get in and look around. You will have your own profile, and you’ll see other people’s profiles displayed on your screen.
Then you can choose whether you like them or not, and if you do, then you can start a chat and send out pictures. It’s not forbidden to share personal contacts here but bear in mind that there are a lot of fake users online, and worst, scammers.
They hide, especially in hookup websites, and they try to get into communities driven by those tendencies that are sometimes considered “kinks.” Let’s be clear: in this review, we are not considering any sexual preference as a kink. This is just a general observation of facts. Beware, scammers, everywhere you are online. Let’s move on now and see what’s the audience in ABDL Match like.
As said in the “cons” section, there are far more men than women here in ABDL Match. We can’t tell the reason. Still, we experienced no chats with fake users. So, here’s our take: maybe there are more men, because the general balance of real users on hookup and dating websites is unbalanced, too!
There are always more men than women. Given that, some websites lump their pages with fake profiles and paid actresses, or worse, chatbots.
So, if the situation remains, the audience in ABDL Match is composed of straight women and men, homosexual women and men, and some transsexual. We found a lot of profile photos showing nudity of personal body parts, so the content sometimes is a little explicit. You need to be aware of that.
Still, in some users’ descriptions, there are phrases like “I like cuddling at bed” or “I would like to be more self-confident.” These are the cutest description we could see within hookup websites.
So, let’s say the audience appears broader: there are few explicit profiles. There are also some gentle souls, looking for a smoother form of communication.
On ABDL Match, you can do what you usually do on a dating website. You will understand everything, at first sight, so you will soon enough be ready to chat, creating a network of friends, ask people out for a hookup or just for a friendly date, and so on.
You can edit your profile as many times as you want, you can upload a profile picture, perform searches, send “winks” from other users, or have a sexy chat.
There’s no limit to messages you can send out, and to profiles you can see—if you decide that you will pay for a membership.
Basically, that’s all you can do on ABDL Match. The extra feature is the kind-of-special sexual taste of people, here.
The website’s monkey proof. You can’t get lost in here as all the features are displayed in the top toolbar. You won’t get bothered by ads and pop-ups, like other dating websites. If you decide to upgrade, you can go to the top toolbar and select the “upgrade” button.
This gives you an idea of how little pushy ABDL Match is. Let’s get into more details of website usability and design.
So, we were talking about the main toolbar. Here is the main navigation tool, which you can use to see your profile and edit it, to read your incoming messages, your photos, a network of friends and hookups, and finally settings. You can then see a big blue “search” button, which will help you to perform searches among online and offline users.
The design is lead by a blue/white/light blue pattern, which we like. It may look a little squared, but still blue is an excellent color to relax, and it makes you think about children’s bedrooms.
The blue leaves in the background look gentle and nice, and the overall feeling is that of a cozy and safe place. If you try not to focus on explicit photos you see on the screen, you’ll see that this could have been a decent website.
There’s no mobile app of ABDL Match. Neither for Android nor for Apple. So, if you would like to check your chat on the go, or browse new users while you’re in your hammock in the garden, taking a nappie, just use the mobile browser version.
It works quite well; there are no relevant bugs. You sign-up with your credentials, and then your mobile’s browser will keep them in its cookies, and it will help you be quicker in the whole process.
Of course, it is always better to use this app in your home, where nobody can see you. Bear in mind that some people still consider ABDL a kink and find very offensive individuals in real life.
We don’t want to upset other people just because of our sexual taste, do we?
It’s not that easy at first, as you will need to scroll down the whole page and go to the lower menu. Then click on the “contact us” tab and fill in the form with all the information needed. Keep it short and clear so that they will immediately understand the issue you are experiencing.
Likely, they will answer you within 48 hours or less. You can also use Customer Support to report bad behavior on the website or to ask for a refund, to cancel your profile for good.
It’s easy to sign-up to ABDL Match. You will just have to go to their main page and to select an alternative. You can be seeking an AB/DL male, an AB/DL female, a transsexual, a mommy or a daddy. You can be one of them, as well.
Then type your email address and a safe password, read the Terms and Conditions and go on only if you have more than 18 years old.
Then you will need to confirm your email, and you’re on board. Here you are free to do whatever you can usually do on a dating website: chatting, creating a network of friends, and asking people out. You can enjoy simple greetings and “winks” from other users, or have a sexier conversation.
There’s a limit for the messages you can send out and for the profiles you can see as long as you have a free membership.
More in detail, let’s say that what you wrote into the sign-up form is not immutable: you can change it once you are signed-up, from the “edit profile” section.
So if you are not sure whether you are a transsexual or a mommy, keep going. You will be able to change it once you realize it.
You can change your sexual preference, as well. Maybe at first, you would like a female. Then, in the ongoing process of discovering your deepest kinks, you will have the necessity of knowing more about men.
You can do whatever you like, here in ABDL Match! Seriously, they are not judging you for anything.
Once you are signed-in and up, you can surf through the website and experience it. Balance the positive and negative features, see the profiles. Then, and only then, pick a wise choice. You will need to pay to chat for long, so we recommend you buy a paid membership if you want to make your adventure a good and permanent one.
Email verification grants a high level of users online. We can’t say this is a decent place, as there are many explicit photos. So, let’s say there is a good profile quality, in the sense that there are not many fake users here in ABDL Match.
There are some scammers, probably, but we can’t tell from the users’ review, from our usual overall look, and from the conversations we had with some people online.
So, maybe the email verification and the fact that you can’t chat for long without paying for a membership, these two premises allow only good users to stay on ABDL Match for long enough not to be banned or spotted as scammers.
The search for users on ABDL Match is performed according to the sections you can compile on your own profile. We mean: you can look for AB/DL males, AB/DL females (but also for both!). You can look for transsexuals, or mommies, or daddies.
If you are paying for a Gold membership, you can select ethnicity, body shape, height, and so on. Be aware of that when you compile your profile. The more accurate these sections are, the more precise your match will be.
You can then chat with whoever you like, just by selecting his/her profile. You can search their profiles, but you can also take a look at who has seen your profile. This feature is only available with a paid membership, though.
Then, you can send out winks to break the ice between you and a stranger. If a person agrees with you that you are an actual hookup couple, you can add them as “hookups.” This is a sort of match happening.
You can know more about a person by looking at the profile pictures. You can host 100 photos, but you need to be a paying member to do so.
Let’s see what a paying member can do in detail.
You can be three users: a free user, a paying user, a Gold user. Basically, you can buy a paid membership for a limited amount of time, and you can add a Gold status to it by paying an extra monthly fee.
A free user can take a look at the website, and this is good if you are a newbie, or if you are not sure the audience or features of this website will be enough for you. Let’s see exactly what you can do with a free membership.
On ABDL Match, you can do what you usually do on dating websites. You can send out a little chat message, and start creating a network of friends. Technically you could ask people out for a hookup or just for a friendly date, and you can add “hookups” to your hookup section. But in real life, it’s hard for you to create a hookup using only a few messages the free membership offers.
You can edit your profile as many times as you want, and upload a profile picture, and perform basic searches. You can send “winks” to other users, as well.
Gold can reply to free users’ messages only if you are a Gold member. This is the only difference between a paying member and a Gold member.
With a paid membership, or silver membership, you will buy a sandbox which is big enough: you can send out and receive unlimited private messages and host 100 photos on your profile. Then you can add as many hookups as you want and see who has visited your profile.
You can have three days trial for 5$, three months for 29$ per month, and six months for 20$ per month. All of them are one-time payments. It may look a little expensive, so we recommend buying the three-day trial first. Don’t forget to cancel your subscription on time—otherwise, they will charge you for a full month.
It’s not hard to cancel your subscription. You can just go to the account settings section and click on unsubscribe. This will freeze your subscription, and you will still e able to activate it whenever you feel ready.
If you keep in mind that you can spot free users at a glance, you can decide to keep yourself away from them, and to choose only paying users. This may grant you a safer environment. Payments are performed within an SSL protocol, so if you make sure you un-tick the wrong boxes, they will be safe enough.
The adult baby Diapers community counts a lot of members within the US. You can find some other valid alternatives to ABDL Match, such as Daily Diapers, for example, one of the most famous ones. Then there’s ABDLvids, Diaper Boys, ABDL community. They offer a different feature, and it’s up to you to choose who will clean you up!
If you have discovered a brand-new world, we are glad of that. If you were an ABDL already, we think you can now have a different and external point of view over the ABDL Match community website.
Looking for a good dating website is not easy today, especially when we talk about particular ones. The risk of haters is behind the corner. Right now, the three-day trial option is an excellent pricing option, if you would like to try this community for real. There’s not much more to say, but good luck!